THE FOLLOWING IS MEANT TO BE VIEWED AS OPINION & COMMENTARY
BY THE AUTHOR. YOU THE READER ARE FREE TO AGREE OR NOT.
THE VIEWS EXPRESSED ARE FREQUENTLY ROOTED IN SCIENTIFIC FACT,
AND WHEN CREDIT IS DUE IT WILL BE NOTED
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WHAT IF FINDING THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE MEANT CHANGING
THE LIFE YOU BEEN LIVING?
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For the moment, I am not going to focus on the scientific studies that have been done over the decades on sexual orientation. If you want more on that, Google it.
No. Where I want to start is on the Sexual Orientation BULLSHIT, and the myths and the PAIN all that causes....
and worse. MUCH worse.
ALL OF US, folks, are born male/female/other. By other I mean we are ALL OF US, (so listen up all you homophobe FUCKTOIDS), born with BOTH estrogen (female) & testosterone (macho pound on your chest like a looney tune cartoon stereotype...male) stuffies in pretty equal measure. Along with the genetic brain differences, what that says is we, ALL OF US, are pretty much born BISEXUAL. But here is the kicker. We really aren't so much born one orientation or another. We are born to LOVE.
SEXUAL ORIENTATION for all that has been written about it, and the lives destroyed because of it, is pretty much a myth. AND NO THAT IS NOT MISS with a lisp. LOL
I can hear screaming back there. SHUT UP.
Ok, squeals of laughter by the girls at the guys. LOL
NOW, since THAT is SCIENTIFIC FACT, let's start with that premise, and now...when you hate, bully, beat up a fag, you are doing that to yourself too, for anyone who is openly gay is only more open about that which you have inside you and just as much too.
When you give into the basest of human nature pitfall SHIT, you are doing it (HATING) yourself first and most. You hate and fear what you don't understand or you have been taught to do that.
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You beat up a FAG, cause on some level you sense the FAG IN YOU, and every punch...every lob with a bat whatever...is against you. The guys who MURDERED Matthew Shepard in Wyoming were more than likely REPRESSED or in hiding maybe even from themselves, but it's obvious and proven scientifically. What you hate in yourself you will hate in others and you will attack that which you hate IN OTHERS as a way of trying to ostensibly cleanse yourself.
Hate crimes are among the most VICIOUS attacks of all, again like the Shepard case. HORRIBLE in its mindless brutality...but HEAR ME. IF WHAT YOU ARE REALLY DOING IS TRYING TO BEAT OUT OF YOURSELF IN REALITY WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TAUGHT TO HATE AND FEAR? That anger and fear will cause a level of violence that is hard to match with any degree of sanity.
Eventually, real homophobes DO realize and then become self-destructive, and often suicidal...OR HOMICIDAL. It is a vicious cycle no one deserves to suffer under.
What am I talking about? Let me elaborate.
I am talking about the mythology surrounding sexual orientation, the orientation itself, and what it is and is not.
The sexual orientation bullcrap we hear about all the time, (if you don't know, listen to the SO-CALLED CHRISTIAN right for a bit), but it all is a distraction from what is REALLY going on.
LOVE.
THAT'S RIGHT. LOVE.
FORGET THE Orientation bullshit for a minute.
Look, I have had a number of friends who REALLY THOUGHT (OH YES THEY DID) they were just OH SO STRAIGHT (heterosexual) and then suddenly found themselves meeting a guy, and BAM! Falling in love.
I HAVE WATCHED IT HAPPEN. It is quite something to see.
What transpires between two guys who suddenly KNOW?
SOMETIMES, immediately knowing they have been LYING TO & DENYING THEMSELVES FOR A LONG TIME, but now were often seeing love in themselves for another human being...REAL LOVE, for the very first time. Lot of these guys were a lot older, and had wasted a lot of their lives and I found that SO sad.
Most I have known had married, had kids, and THEN began to look at themselves. Often after meeting another dude and that love thing stood up and slapped the crap out of their face. LOL.
Sometimes BOTH were in the same leaky boat, that first look shining meant so much.
SADLY, now they had not only fucked up THEIR Life, but their wife and kids lives too. WAY TO GO, goofuses.
BUT they FINALLY RECOGNIZED THAT they were in love with another guy, and KNEW they HAD TO follow their heart. Going for it? Is a beautiful thing.
(I have seen this with women, too and it is equally as sad).
But yes. It is beautiful to see that little lightbulb go on. WHY? IT SETS YOU FREE...and also dispels the myth that sexual orientation is what is important. NOPE, LOVE is.
LOVE IS. I CANNOT STRESS THAT ENOUGH. LOVE, IN ITS ESSENCE, IS.
SEXUAL ORIENTATION IS HORSESHIT.
LOVE IS AWESOME...and when you find it or it finds you?
OH MY GOD.
WHETHER YOU THINK you are gay, straight, or a bunny rabbit (HARE EEE THOUGHT), we are ALL sexual beings, but that is only part of it. WHAT WE ARE is LOVE ANIMALS.
Bears, bunny rabbits, and humans. YEP. If we could ALL get over the stupid shit about orientation and set ourselves FREE to just LOVE that other person irregardless of gender that your heart is going WHOA over. Then suddenly your life has just gotten a WHOLE LOT better, easier and more joy-filled cause FILLING YOUR HEART, LIFE, AND DAYS is ALL THE LOVE YOU HAVE BEEN MISSING AND WHICH IS THE LOVE THAT, tah dah, YOU WERE MEANT to have and enjoy ALL ALONG.
NOT that love conquers ALL the other bullshit, but it makes going through the CRAP of life EASIER cause you get to share YOUR crap with someone else. HAHAHAHAHA.
IF you are Pakistani or Afghan AND IF YOU ARE HONEST WITH YOURSELF, you more than likely have a MUCH better handle on this than Europeans and GOD KNOWS, Americans.
European dudes have figured out a lot of this long ago, but American DUDES are SOOOO BOUND by stereotypes and myths about what a REAL MAN is, that they are killing themselves with stress over it, AND often depriving themselves of the LOVE they are meant to have cause their emotions are so FUCKED UP...and I DO MEAN fucked up. It is changing finally in America AND in the Middle East but it SHOULD HAVE LONG AGO. NO ONE needs to be taken and held hostage by the bullshit that especially the religious right have spewed. NO ONE, and if yourself be so, it is YOUR damn fault.
In the immortal words of former Sec of State Hillary Rodham Clinton,
"AT THIS POINT...WHAT THE FUCK DIFFERENCE DOES IT Make."
Ok I improvised. LOL
TRUST ME THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT SHE MEANT
and she is right. What difference DOES it make.
SHORT ANSWER, IT DOESN'T. NOT A WHIT!!!
If you meet someone, guy girl whatever, and you feel a WOW in your groin (please don't make me explain that), GO FOR IT, dumbass. THAT IS LOVE POUNDING ON THE DOOR TO YOUR HEART. (AND perhaps elsewhere...LOL). FEELING A MAJOR TUG ON YE OLDE ZIPPER ARE WE? If you are wearing velcro, HAHAHA...too late.
Course it has to be more than a little WOW. That might just be gas, but...you will know. If you meet a dude and spend a little time and then later, maybe home in bed, your heart and mind can't stop thinking about him, DUH. LOL. It is sooo sad to see a dude denying his true feelings. It tears people apart. They lay in bed and TORTURE themselves.
STUPID? OMG, but hey. no. He is a guy, EEEK, and I am NOT THAT...
Oh shut the fuck up. IF YOU WEREN'T BASICALLY THAT WAY, you would not be having that conversation, NOW WOULD YOU SWEETCHEEKS.
Short answer,
NOOOOOOO. You wouldn't.
PLEASE don't MISS...the chance for LOVE. FOR GOD'S SAKE, for something as stupid as you believing lies told by people who know even less than you do about what LOVE REALLY IS and what it isn't.
If a guy who suddenly starts making your heart and breath and zipper do things that make you #1 crazy #2 breathless #3 tingly #4 slightly NUTS, and when he looks at you you can feel your zipper cutting off your circulation and your eyes start spinning,
and your internal life timer starts dinging, and your breathing STOPS, and when you look back you see him suddenly NAKED, and on a rotisserie with an apple in his...wait!
That is the Food Channel.
HOW TO SERVE YOUR FRIENDS, MEDIUM RARE as I recall.
Anyway, go ahead. LOOK BACK, with that same look. Let your body and your feet move a little closer, and wait for the fireworks. THEY WILL come trust me. If you are both looking like two incendiary devices (grenades) about to have their pins pulled, GO FOR IT. LOL. EXPLOSIONS CAN BE FUN!
and in the warm glow of the candles on your bedside table, as you feel the warm sensual EXCITING softness of the skin of him as he lies pressed up against you on sheets wet from the past hour of loving...and as the two of you lay there in the dim light and both too exhausted to speak, don't worry. You won't have to. That intense look of love on your faces and in your eyes will speak volumes.
I WILL TELL YOU FROM EXPERIENCE. WHEN YOU FINALLY 'GET IT', and you have that first encounter of the kind you were supposed to be doing all along?
ORGASM? OMG. You will think your spleen will end up being knocked unconcious by the blast.
I KID YOU NOT...LOL...this will be an experience you will NEVER EVER EVER forget. Those sheets will be BEYOND washing. OH yes. The remnants and charred remains?
Sorry girls. THIS is guy stuff. Ok, guys, listen.
I bet you think YOU PRETTY DAMN HOT STUFF, doncha. SURE YOU DO.
YOU ARE CONVINCED (HAHAH) that your penis is the biggest and best EVER!
OK. Soooo. why in HELL wouldn't that cute dude over there giving you the once-twice-good to go once over...with those eyes of his you suddenly realize now are turning YOU into HIS personal POP TART, WHY WOULDN'T that be one HELL of an adventure into what Disney can only dream about...and if nothing else, it will either confirm or deny your feelings, fears, thoughts. OR it is likely to anyway. So if you love sex and if you are a guy THAT IS A GIVEN, right?
HAVING AN ORGASM THAT WILL SHATTER WINDOWS AND WASH WALLS FOR THREE BLOCKS? HEY...works for me. LOL.
If it is a she, and so are you? Fine. Boy/girl? Ok, fine.
If it is a he and so are you? SO FUCKING WHAT? LOVE IS LOVE...PERIOD, dumbass.
LOVE is beautiful, THE most beautiful thing two humans can express with and to each other. REALLY. GOD KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING THIS TIME. It can TOTALLY blow your mind...and ...uh...well, you know.
It is also challenging, work, joy, fun, and can be both MIND-NUMBINGLY incredible AND NUTS. LOL...and you WILL feel numb for a tad. That's kewl.
BUTT in the end, to have that ONE person, same sex or not, who...#1. makes you crazy, #2. changes your heart, #3. drives your own personal MISS DAISY, while also driving you NUTS, and...driving your..
uh..
your...uh
and #4. makes you KNOW...INSIDE. DEEP INSIDE, THAT...
WHEN YOU CAN KNOW THAT IS TRUE,WHO CARES ABOUT GENDER, FOOL,
YOU GOT LOVE IN YOUR GENES, IN YOUR JEANS, HELLOOOOOOOOO...AND YOU GOT JUMPING BEANS WHERE YOUR YOU KNOW USED TO HANG...
limp and damn near dead but no more.
YOU WILL TELL THEM...cause YOU WANT TO...
OH GOD YES. I WHO CAN WIN THE OLYMPICS IN THE CUDDLING CATEGORY
(LET THE GAMES BEGIN) HUGS RULE.
THIS NEXT ONE IS PRICELESS WITHOUT A VISA CARD.
Me and mine.YEH
LOVE IS JUST SO FUCKING KEWL,..
and to be honest, GUYS DO IT BEST
SORRY GIRLS, but you get two of them together...and WHOA, lol.
LOVE IS AND ALWAYS SHOULD BE WHAT MAKES A RELATIONSHIP WORK
GUYS, GIRLS, WHATEVER.
LOVE=JOY=PATIENCE & UNDERSTANDING=
LIFE WITHOUT EQUAL.
AND IF YOU ARE WITH A FEMALE, BUT YOU GOT A MALE FRIEND WHO YOU KNOW...
DOWN DEEP, IS MORE?
MEANS MORE THAN SHE DOES?
FUCK IT!
GET WITH THE ONE WHO MOVES YOU
STOP WITH THE MEANINGLESS BS
AND IF YOUR THING IS GIRLS...HEY
GO FOR THAT..
JUST GO
LOVE
LOVE LONG, HARD, AND HONESTLY
YOU WILL NEVER REGRET IT
IT DOESN'T MATTER WHO...
THEM OR THEIR GENDER
OR THEIR LOOKS OR THEIR AGE
OR WHATEVER
IT'S HOW THEY MAKE YOU FEEL
IT'S WHO THEY ARE, DOWN INSIDE.
JUST LOVE THEM 1000%
WITH EVERYTHING YOU GOT
LOVE WELL, LONG, HARD, LOYALLY
LOVE IS THE KEY TO ANY DAMN DOOR
YOU WANNA GO THROUGH...
SO? WHATCHA WAITING FOR? HUH?
SANTA?
Hey, I once asked that fat bastard to send me the sexiest hottest
horniest BAM BAM DUDE on the planet.
I WOKE UP IN A BOX, GIFT WRAPPED.
LOL
AND IF YOU ARE EVER SO FUCKING LUCKY TO
WIN ME OVER?
I'll show you a thing or two about MULTPLE ORGASMS
TRUST ME...but I will ALSO teach you about the LOVE THAT IS FOREVER
THAT IS WHO I AM, AND...
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